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Will self-confident seed is buried greatly in child heart
From;    Author:Stand originally
: 2008-05-20 04:32:0Self-confidence of 0 is experience of a kind of affection, to the child, build good ego to evaluate a system as a child, establish self-confidence, can spend lifetime successfully in the future for him, lay next solid foundations. However, how can you just plant self-confident seed in the child's heart? Children education expert gives out the following proposals:

· gives love termlessly

Let the child know, no matter he is good-looking, healthy, parents can love him, this will be the optimal soil of develop of child self-confidence heart.



As parents, give the child generously love, embrace him morely, kiss him. When helping him correct a certain error, tell him clearly, what you cannot accept is his behavior, is not his this individual.

  · gives the child enough attention

Take out time as far as possible, accompany accompany the child, such meetings let him feel those who come from parents to take seriously. The time that accompanies the child is differ want surely very long, as long as you are getting online when browsing, stop to get on two a little with him what wanting to chat with you; Perhaps put out TV, answer a question that he raises; Etc. Maintain as parallel as child eye communication, this meeting tells him clearly, you are paying close attention to him seriously.

   ·Give the child the right of the choice

When choosing to the child, had better let him make a decision in two kinds of choices, for instance, wear braces pants or stripe pants; Draw strong strokes of a Chinese character or aquarelle to wait. Because if be not added,be restricted, the child often can make incomputable choice. While the child decides for oneself in, also gain the opportunity that builds self-confidence. Get agreeing to time in oneself judgement, ego evaluation of the child also can rise greatly.